when husband and wife come together in intimacy
sex during and after pregnancy
baby have to get out of the bedroom eventually
Kejadian 2:24 BIMK
[24] Itulah sebabnya orang laki-laki meninggalkan ayah dan ibunya, dan bersatu dengan istrinya, lalu keduanya menjadi satu.
https://bible.com/bible/27/gen.2.24.BIMK
apapun musim kehidupan yang kita alami skrg
tubuh kita berubah terus , sex actually gets better
learning experience first when wedding night
sex is a journey to learn each other
physically naked --> spiritually naked to each other
start opening your heart to your spouse, trust your spouse with anything
conversation on sex --> get better intimacy with your spouse
learn to communicate --> intimacy
the more you talk the more you converse about desire --> chase around me
1 Korintus 7:1-7 BIMK
[1] Sekarang saya mau bicara mengenai masalah yang kalian sebut dalam suratmu. Kalau seorang laki-laki tidak kawin, itu baik. [2] Tetapi supaya tidak tergoda untuk berbuat hal-hal yang tidak patut, lebih baik setiap orang laki-laki mempunyai istrinya sendiri dan setiap wanita mempunyai suaminya sendiri. [3] Suami harus memenuhi kewajibannya sebagai suami terhadap istrinya, dan istri harus memenuhi kewajibannya sebagai istri terhadap suaminya; masing-masing memenuhi kewajibannya terhadap yang lain. [4] Istri tidak berkuasa atas tubuhnya sendiri; yang berkuasa atas tubuhnya adalah suaminya. Begitu juga suami tidak berkuasa atas tubuhnya sendiri; yang berkuasa atas tubuhnya adalah istrinya. [5] Janganlah menjauhi satu sama lain secara suami istri. Boleh untuk sementara waktu, asal dua-duanya sama-sama sudah setuju. Dengan demikian masing-masing dapat berdoa dengan tidak terganggu. Tetapi kemudian, haruslah kalian kembali saling mendekati secara suami istri. Kalau tidak begitu, nanti kalian bisa menuruti bujukan roh jahat, karena kalian tidak kuat menahan nafsu. [6] Saya mengatakan ini bukan sebagai perintah, tetapi sebagai nasihat. [7] Sebenarnya saya lebih suka kalau semua orang menjadi seperti saya. Tetapi masing-masing sudah menerima karunia yang khusus dari Allah. Seorang mempunyai karunia ini, yang lain mempunyai karunia itu.
https://bible.com/bible/27/1co.7.1-7.BIMK
1 Corinthians 7:5 NLT
[5] Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
https://bible.com/bible/116/1co.7.5.NLT
sometimes woman when we are upset we dont want to have sex
sex promotes unity
sex glorifies God
Proverbs 5:18-19 NLT
[18] Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. [19] She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love.
https://bible.com/bible/116/pro.5.18-19.NLT
always be captivated on her, always look on her
how do you keep your husband captivated on you?
nicer, serve him more than serve the kids, spend more time with him
your wife is God's secret weapon
woman is looking for a man God had called him to be what God called him.
respect : automatically given to husband.
without grace we won't be here
as female you need to change wardrobe when u need to
be the queen of Ester
take care of yourself as you should've
grow old together, being natural together
that's joy of the journey
when u said "till death do us part" it's everything, wrinkle, saggy arm
make your own grass greener, water your own yard
do renovation in your marriage
make time and priority to each other
Song of Songs 2:15 NLT
[15] Catch all the foxes, those little foxes, before they ruin the vineyard of love, for the grapevines are blossoming!
https://bible.com/bible/116/sng.2.15.NLT
get rid of the foxes
verbal and physical abuse
his and her pockets
having opposite sex as best friend
selfishness
bringing up the past into the present
stifling dreams (you are always against each other, this marriage is for each other and not competing against each other)
sexual addictions
learn your spouse's love language
keep your marriage priority
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